Why Many Christian Women Will Die Old Maids

By David J. Stewart | March 2019

Proverbs 31:10-12, “Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.”

       I have received countless e-mails from frustrated Christian men, like myself, who cannot find a prudent wife to marry. I tell them all the same thing... WOMEN ARE MESSED UP NOWADAYS!

Read what our text verse says. A “virtuous woman” doesn't hurt her husband. He can safely trust in her not to do him evil. A lot of women today are filing for divorce, which ends up costing the husband tens of thousands of dollars in attorney's fees. She causes him “spoil.” Don't do it ladies! Please don't play the fool for a lucrative $50,000,000,000 corrupt legal system in America, that wants to profit from the destruction of YOUR marriage!!! That is why when a spouse files for divorce, the first thing the legal system does is prohibit the couple from communicating except THROUGH THE LAWYERS. They do that on purpose to maintain control, to prevent the couple from reuniting and losing all that money which the man would have had to pay! Many husbands lose their home to pay for the attorney's outrageous fees, which are nothing short of a cruel form of financial rape!

The Word of God foretells of a future time when  SEVEN WOMEN will hold on to ONE MAN, begging him to marry them! Wow! I can't even find one wife. Isaiah 4:1, “And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.” Consider the sharp contrast to America today, where many women are merely looking for a Sugar-Daddy to take care of her and pay all the bills. Granted, it is a man's job to provide for his wife and take care of her, but it is also her job to take care of her husband's needs (intimacy, clean the house, prepare home-cooked meals, wash the clothes, care for the children, et cetera). The biggest problem with women today is their SELFISH attitude! They want this, want that, but don't have a servant's heart. A godly woman wants to wait on a man hand and foot! In today's messed up female world, women are pursuing careers. It seems that most young women are enrolling into Bible colleges these days to become nurses! Really? What about staying home as a homemaker? 1st Timothy 5:14-15 commands women to get married, have babies, and guide the house, not become working nurses who never get married and never have any children. They are turned aside after Satan!

1st Timothy 5:14-15, “I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. For some are already turned aside after Satan.”

Bob Jones University and Crown Bible College (to name but a couple institutions) are helping young women to TURN ASIDE AFTER SATAN, training future nurses, many of whom will never get married or become mothers. How messed up is that? Hey, there's lots of guys out there who want to get married and take care of a wife, like me, but few Christian women want to be cared for. Instead, they want to take care of themselves! Christian women have the WRONG PRIORITIES today! In the old days a century ago, feminine women sought for a husband. It was expected of a female, and they knew their role. Today, increasingly since World War II, women have entered into the workplace—wearing tattoos, driving cars, fighting with machine guns in the military, operating heavy equipment, managing businesses, and are today as manly as ever. SHE-MAN, YOU KNOW THE NAME OF SHE-MAN!!!

Check out Google to see Bob Jones University's shameful female students exposing their thighs and butts in sexy sports outfits! BJU's
females are rugged, they're tough, they're fearless, they have THE POWER...SHE-MAN!!!

Today's Bob Jones University Female Graduate (SHE-MAN and the masters of the universe!!)

Alex Jones is right—Women are empowered, angry and rebellious!

Sadly, that includes Christian women as well, who are not very “Christian.” In fact, you cannot tell a Bob Jones University woman apart from the heathen world anymore, and that includes many of their shameful female graduates. GET RIGHT WITH GOD!!!

The Snobby Bob Jones Nurse Who Will Never Find a Husband

One thing that bothers me about a woman, more than anything else, is a woman who cannot stand upon her own two feet! Most religious women follow the crowd, going along to get along with their religious employer at a church. They cannot think for themselves. I remember attending church a few years ago, and a female staff member (a Bob Jones Graduate) met me in the church parking lot with an elderly man that is her friend. She was too much of a coward to approach me by herself. I liked her but was going through a very rough time in my life and didn't reach out to her. I wish I had. In hindsight, I really liked her a lot (and still do). A friend of hers confirmed to me that she liked me. A couple years later, after being driven out of the church over my King James Bible only beliefs, I met up with her one day while walking along the ocean. I hadn't seen her for a long time, but I had thought about her often and missed her. My heart leaped when I saw her.

So I wrote her and finally poured out my heart to her, explaining how I felt about her. She cold-heartedly wrote me back, coerced by her church employer, telling me not to contact her again. That was the end of that. What a coward! She lied and said she never liked me, but I know as sure as I'm saved that she did. How can a woman like that with poor character make a good wife? She can't even tell the truth, think for herself, or stand upon her own two feet! I wouldn't be surprised if she never found a husband! The guy before me dumped her, because her attitude is all wrong! I like what Pastor Jack Hyles often said, “To lose something in the will of God is to find something better!”

I have never seen her since. I have wanted to contact her many times, but I cannot after she forbade me to do so. I'm not stupid. One day when she is an old maid, having never been married, with no children of her own, she'll lie to herself, like a lot of foolish women do, saying retarded things to herself like: “Well, it must not have been God's will,” et cetera. But the truth will be that she did that to herself, making foolish decisions throughout her life. One day she will realize that she grew old, and passed up a real opportunity to have a husband that genuinely cares about her. I still pray for her often, for God's will to be done in her life. Professed Christian women are so foolish today, living in The Twilight Zone. The random photo to the left is what she'll probably look like in 25 years! No woman can be truly happy who does not fulfill her God-given purpose to be a HELP MEET, pursuing a career instead of serving the Lord by a husband's side (Genesis 2:18). If she does marry, she'll never find a more sincere man with a loving heart than me!

A perfect example of what I am talking about is Miss Viola Walden (1915-2007). I truly admire the commitment to the Lord of Miss Walden, but I think she made a foolish mistake by choosing to remain Dr. John R. Rice's (1895-1980) lifetime secretary. She is gone to Heaven now since 2007, so I can say this without hurting her feelings. Miss Walden (or “Miss V” as Brother Jack Hyles called her) turned down a marriage proposal from a Christian doctor. She turned down numerous marriage proposals from Christian men desiring to marry her. Viola went against God's Word. 1st Timothy 5:14-15 tells us God's will, “that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. For some are already turned aside after Satan.” The Scriptures do not command young women to work as paid secretaries for a preacher! The Scriptures do not command female Bob Jones graduates to work as paid nurses!

Hey, John R. Rice was married, and his wife was married. Viola had no one! In 1980 Dr. Rice went to Heaven and Viola was without her lifetime employer. Viola was now 65 years old in 1980, but way too old to bear any children of her own. She was all alone in the big world! She lived another 27 lonely years, with no husband, no children and no grandchildren. For what? To be a lousy secretary? Yes, that is the foolish choice which she made. I think it is sad and tragic. That is my opinion! You couldn't pay me enough, nor offer me anything in this world, to become a Viola Walden if I were a Christian woman!!! Ladies, you save yourself until you get a wedding ring on your finger, and then you bear those precious children! That is God's will for you.

Women Who Cannot Bear Children

Now if for some reason you cannot bear children, then at least you can rejoice in the Lord that it was all beyond your control, which is an entirely different situation. No woman ought ever feel embarrassed or ashamed because she cannot bear children! Only God can cause conception to happen in a woman's womb, which is the precious miracle of life! Why does God shut up the womb of some women? I do not know. It could be a medical situation, drug poisoning, chemical poisoning, a childhood injury, or the husband has a physical defect, or being obese; it could be many things. We are subject to the laws of nature, including the consequences of abusing those laws can cause infertility. Many women have become sterile because of man's carelessness with nature. BEWARE OF MAN!!!

It could be God Himself preventing a pregnancy, as we see with Rachel in the Old Testament, because of her bitterness toward her sister Leah. I would be VERY careful ladies about blaming anyone for your infertility, unless you know for sure. My heart goes out to infertile mothers. I know that is an extremely heavy burden to carry. Albeit, I think it is wrong and sinful for a woman to intentionally avoid marriage and children to pursue a career of any sort. Dolly Parton and Deborah Harry (aka, “Blondie”) are two celebrities who come to mind, both of whom chose to forfeit motherhood to pursue a career. That is tragic and they are failures if you ask me! That is why many Christian women are one day going to end up like Viola Walden, an old maid! I say that respectfully! Evangelist John R. Rice could have found another secretary anywhere, but Viola couldn't rewind the hands of time and have children at age 65, when Brother Rice died and she was all alone.

By the way, Dr. Hyles called Viola regularly after Dr. Rice died, for the rest of his life until he went to glory in 2001, because he knew she was all alone, and he encouraged and befriended her. You won't hear that from Brother Hyles' scumbag critics. They are not worthy to tie Pastor Hyles' shoelaces! Jack Hyles was perhaps the greatest Christian of the 20th century! When we look at a saved person, we measure them by how few sins and mistakes they've made in life; but when God measures a saved person, He takes into account the good as well! Dr. Hyles was the first person to admit that he never claimed to be a good Christian, but he walked with God, and taught his people how to walk with God, and he never shortchanged them in his time spent preparing sermons or walking with God.

Tattoos Are Worldly, No Matter What!

Everywhere I turn I see women wearing tattoos. If you are a woman, and you have a tattoo, at a very minimum it shows that you are worldly, because tattoos didn't originate in the Church! The Scriptures teach that the human body is the TEMPLE of the Holy Spirit of God. 1st Corinthians 3:16-17, “Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.” Neither men nor women should get a tattoo. But you say, “What about a memorial tattoo for a loved one who died?” NO ONE SHOULD GET A TATTOO!!! Tattoos are a worldly thing! God gave us crayons, pens and markers to draw on good ole paper, not stick Indian Ink into our bodies! I am not judging anyone. I have often complemented people with tattoos. Just the other day I complemented a young island woman at the grocery store who was bagging my groceries. I told her that I liked her “Hello Kitty” tattoo on her wrist (I really liked her!). I have also seen some cool looking tattoos on the calves of younger island guys. I never express my disapproval for someone's tattoo, because they already have it. I am just saying if you don't already have one, please don't get one, because it is unbiblical. The believer's human body is God's temple!

Where is the Proverbs 31 Woman?

The Bible says that a prudent wife is from the Lord. Proverbs 19:14, “House and riches are the inheritance of fathers and a prudent wife is from the LORD.” I do not believe this means if you pray earnest enough that God will give you a prudent wife. If that is what it means, it sure hasn't worked for me! Rather, I think it means that if a man finds a prudent wife, she allowed God to make her a Proverbs 31 woman! A web visitor once wrote to me and said, “Thank you for allowing God to do all this through you!” That is perhaps the greatest complement I have ever received. A Proverbs 31 women doesn't just happen, she is made. If you are a woman, and don't know where to start, but would like to become a Proverbs 31 woman, then begin by taking baby-steps in that direction. It begins with the fear of God and obedience to the Holy Scriptures!

A Proverbs 31 woman is not perfect, but she is hungry to be all that she can be for God, her husband, her children, her church, and her community (in that order). When a woman puts her husband over God, she is asking for trouble. This is why some wives go to prison with their husband, for going along with a crime that was not God's will. When a woman puts her children over her husband, the husband may become frustrated and run off with another woman instead who meets his needs. There is a proper divine order of things! When a woman puts her pastor and church over her husband, she is headed for a divorce!

I signed up for e-Harmony dating over a year ago. So far it has been a big waste of my time. I signed up over 5-years ago, but never actually activated my account, because they wanted too much money. So they finally gave me a deal that I couldn't refuse, for $5.95 per month! I read last week that a man on average has to send 114 messages to a woman, before he'll receive just one reply from someone! Oh no! We'll, that has certainly been my situation. I'm still waiting for a reply. E-Harmony has a bunch of fake profiles. In frustration I even cancelled my account recently, but then went back and reactivated it. I figure, what have I got to lose? The other day I received two different profiles, but noticed that it was the SAME woman, with the same photos, with two different names, in two different states! I'm really starting to wonder about e-Harmony!

I tried to go the preferable church route to find a wife, but there are NO GOOD CHURCHES ON GUAM! All we have on island are some Baptist religious businesses! A good church cares about THE TRUTH! A good church goes soulwinning! A good church doesn't try to silence faithful Christians about what is wrong with the modern Bible versions! A good church doesn't support Bob Jones University and their Satanic support of the modern perversions. Sadly, the Seventh Day Adventists seem to be the nicest people on the island of Guam, some of whom I know. Maybe I'll find a wife there. Just kidding! I don't want the Devil for a father-in-law. I may never find a wife, but I have the dear Lord. Pastor Danny Castle is right, “It is better to wait long than marry wrong!” And Brother Danny also said, “The only thing worse than not being married, is being married and not wanting to be married!” Yes Sir! That is so true!

Pastor Steven Anderson said something that really helped me. He said a lot of people ask the question, “How can I live alone the rest of my life?” Brother Anderson then said, “Let me ask you a question: Can you live alone for just today? Can you live alone for just ONE DAY?” That really helped me, just taking life one day at a time, and not thinking about tomorrow, which may never come! Thinking that way works! I love Brother Anderson and his online preaching has helped me so much! The droves of people who criticize and condemn Pastor Anderson obviously don't listen to him with a hungry heart, for if they did they'd love a truth-teller. A man wrote to me and said that he felt like he has know me all my life. I wrote back and told him I feel the same toward Pastor Steven Anderson, Pastor Danny Castle, Pastor Max Younce, Pastor Ralph “Yankee” Arnold, and other men of God! The reason WHY is because we share a common bond of a LOVE FOR THE TRUTH!!! People who love THE TRUTH will love a truth-teller! I don't agree with everything that any preacher says, but I know when a man loves God and truth, and I'm going to support and promote that man!

I went to buy some cases of water the other night. I don't drink the poor tap water on Guam. The water company says the water is okay, but they don't test the old pipes bringing the water to the homes. So how do they know? They don't! The local tap water makes my towels smell like stagnant pipes, the same foul stench from draining water from fire system water lines. So I don't drink the local water. I buy mountain spring water imported from South Korea! I am not complaining, God is good. Anyway, I went to buy water and a man with no legs rolled up in his wheelchair and asked me for 50 cents. Oh boy, a chance to help somebody. I love it! I gave him $20. He was so happy. That was Jesus giving a legless man some money THROUGH ME. I have been thinking about the sight of that man with no legs all week. His legs were amputated just below the knees. Oh how we are all so blessed of God! It is in our nature to look at what we don't have and park there. So I don't have a wife. Am I frustrated? Sure! But I am happy in the Lord. My name is written in Heaven. I don't have anybody to fight with! Amen! Being single has its advantages. I can, and do, work on my website 24 hours a day. I woke up the other night at 3 am and couldn't sleep. I worked on my website ministry.

I have also signed up for some other dating websites, to search for a prospective Christian wife. It appears that women outnumber men on paid websites (like e-Harmony, which is why they gave me such a cheap rate), but men outnumber women on free websites (by a ratio of SEVEN to ONE!). There are a lot of pigs on the internet, men who only want a whore! If I were a woman, I don't think I would look online for a husband, unless I was desperate (and evidently many women are). Women are so unrealistic nowadays. One woman said she doesn't want a man who enjoys listening to rock music. She specifically said she wants a man who enjoys listening to classical music. Do you know that queers love classical music! I love ALL KINDS of music! A lot of women literally having a SHOPPING LIST online of the type of husband they are seeking. It doesn't work that way ladies. Good luck with that! I like rock music, sorry! I don't listen to AC/DC and other music that God does not want me to hear, but I don't see any harm in some secular music. I like some Crosby, Stills and Nash. What some women really want is a religious partner, to play church together, to dot their i's and cross their t's, but she doesn't want an actual HUSBAND! I run from any woman who posts a SHOPPING LIST of qualities that she expects in a husband.

I'd like for ONCE to see a woman who posts a list of all the positive things that SHE WILL BE FOR HER HUSBAND! I mean, isn't that how it is supposed to work? I did find one woman's profile, and tried to write to her when I read all the wonderful things she said. Since I live on Guam, I am blocked from contacting her in the United States. That is one more thing that I hate about living on Guam. It's like living on a different planet. Amazon.com won't ship half of the things that I try to order. Anyway, I found out that this too-good-to-be-true woman is on the Favorite's List of 700 MEN! She appears on multiple dating websites. Clearly, she is a fraud! She is either a teaser, or the most picky woman on the planet.

Women Have Significantly More Mental Problems Than Men

Don't get mad at me ladies, I'm just giving you THE FACTS! Look at this nutcase in the photo to the right! (Click on the photo, go ahead, see what she is bragging about!) According to a 2016 medical study in England, women have significantly more mental problems than men...

Women are more likely to have mental health problems than men, with young women at particularly high risk, the biggest survey of mental health disorder and treatment in England has found.

The Adult Psychiatric Morbidity Survey, conducted every seven years and based on interviews with a cross section of the general population aged 16 and over, found that one in six adults (17%) had a common mental disorder—one in five women (20.7%) and one in eight men (13.2%).1 Common mental disorders were classified as generalised anxiety disorder, depression (including mild, moderate, and severe), phobias, obsessive compulsive disorder, panic disorder, and non-specified disorder.

The prevalence of mental health problems has been growing since the survey was first undertaken in 1993. ...

SOURCE: https://www.bmj.com/content/354/bmj.i5320

Read about the insane wife of Evangelist Ted Pike! Sadly, she ended up committing suicide. I am not down on women, God forbid. I am simply pointing out that women today are MESSED-UP, largely due to feminist indoctrination by the Rockefellers. The average churchgoing female doesn't even realize that she is also a victim of feminist re-engineering! Proof of what I say is that there are MILLIONS of young single women today, many of whom were mothers before they dropped out of high school, and now they cannot find a man foolish enough to raise their bastard children!

This includes messed-up Christian women, who are so liberated and messed-up these days that they cannot find a husband! Many women in churches today are unfriendly, ungrateful, snobby, self-righteous and unapproachable. They want a perfect man who doesn't exist. They are too darn picky, and they'll end up as an old maid in just a skip and a hop in time. We live in perilous times of effeminate queers, murdering abortionists, perverted sodomites legally adopting children, rebellious wives filing for divorce, and single Christian women who are spoiled little brats! Romans 3:18, “There is no fear of God before their eyes.”

Remarriage May Not Be Ideal, But it is Biblical for Some

Remarriage is Biblical.1st Corinthians 7:1-2, “Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.” A divorced person cannot obey this Bible passage without remarrying. Albeit, divorce and remarriage is an explosive bomb in churches today. I know foolish preachers who teach that a divorced person is supposed to remain single the rest of their life. That is only true if someone quits their marriage (1st Corinthians 7:11). This is why Jesus taught that if a man divorces his wife, he is CAUSING her to commit adultery, when she remarries (Matthew 19:9).

The reason why the Bible says a married couple will have trouble in the flesh is because in marriage, two sinners are being united as one! I do not believe that anyone should remarry a former spouse to whom you wouldn't marry, if your met them as a stranger. In other words, if you don't like your former spouse, you ought not remarry them out of some misguided sense of religious guilt, pressure or lack of options. If you do, and you murder them, you'll be the one who spends the rest of your life in prison, not the jerk-off idiot religious person putting a guilty-trip on you for desiring to remarry. You should never marry someone that you don't feel completely happy and content to be marrying!

Kindly, I'd rather stay single the rest of my life, than to remarry a problematic person who disrespects me in conversation, causes me grief and undue neck pain, and wants nothing but financial security from me. THAT IS NOT A WIFE, that is a whore! Hear me out dear reader, if a person doesn't treat you with respect before you are married, THEY WON'T WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED! What you see is what you get. DO NOT make the grave error of foolishly thinking that you will change a person AFTER you marry them, because YOU WON'T!!! Whatever it is about a person before you marry them that you don't like, will be magnified TEN TIMES after you are married. If a husband and wife are not best of buddies and confidants in the world after 10 years of marriage, something is very wrong! A true marriage is two people making a life for each other. I love that definition! A MARRIAGE IS TWO PEOPLE MAKING A LIFE FOR EACH OTHER! It cannot be a one way street to be a happy marriage.

I am not saying that marriage is supposed to be a 50/50 proposition, God forbid. Marriage is a 100/100 proposition. That is, if one spouse fails on their end, giving only 10%, then the other spouse ought to still give 100%. That sounds great in theory, but in reality it hardly ever works, because the burden is too great for the suffering spouse. The only way for a person to endure through a difficult situation like that is LOVE. If you truly love a person, or have God's love in your soul, then you can hang in there and make it!

Once married, it should be 'til death do us part. However, once someone files for legal divorce, and follows it through to the end, it everything changes. That gives both separated parties A CHOICE. The former marriage is gone! But you say, “Oh, they are still married in God's eyes!” Okay, then they ought to be able to shack-up as husband and wife, right, and simply tell everyone that they are married. You know as well as I do that no Christian person accepts that philosophy. So then they are NOT MARRIED anymore in God's eyes. I hate divorce. God hates divorce (Jeremiah 3:20). You should hate divorce. The word “divorce” ought not even be in a married person's vocabulary. Once you go that route, you are playing with deadly fire. The divorce racket is now a $50 billion a year industry in America!!! Can you imagine how many divorces would be averted, and marriages saved, if mandatory marriage counseling was first required by law before a couple could divorce? Ungodly judges and lawyers will never go along with that, because it would deprive them of billions of dollars of your money! HELL WILL BE HOT ENOUGH!!!!!!

Pastor Danny Castle teaches that when there is a divorce, it is as if that former spouse HAS DIED. You can hear Brother Danny teach this on YouTube in his series of Marriage, Divorce and Remarriage (part one) sermons. I tend to agree with him. I think it really comes down to whether or not you have feelings toward your former spouse. I'm not talking about God's unconditional love that we are supposed to have for everyone. I'm talking about actually being in love with a person, and wanting to spend the rest of your life with them, even if it means changing their diapers when they are sick one day, and can no longer take care of them self. If you don't feel that kind of love for a person, you ought not marry them! You cannot change how you truly feel about a person, and ought not feel bad or guilty for those feelings. It is what it is! You may have God's love for your former spouse who divorced you, and be willing to do anything to help them if they need it, but that is an entirely different matter than remarrying them.

There needs to be a soul's hunger to be with that person, not a feeling of reluctance because they annoy you. I DO BELIEVE that people can change. I believe that ANYONE can change, but they have to want to change and work at it. It all depends on what needs to change. A person ought not have to change their natural personality, but a lot of women have a serious bad attitude problem toward men; they are sassy, irreverent toward male authority, boisterous, defiant, and unwilling to be submissive. I'd gladly give everything I own in this world for a loyal loving wife who values my ministry, appreciates my hard work, loves me for who I am, shares my interests, and is content with the simple pleasures of life. A wife should want to walk in her husband's shadow, as a faithful “HELP MEET.” Genesis 2:18, “And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” I heard a local preacher say that this Bible verse doesn't mean what most people think it means. Why sure it does! The way that I know is God's solution to the problem... GOD GAVE ADAM A WIFE!!! Every good man needs a wife!

1st Corinthians 7:27-29, “Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife. But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you. But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none.”

Without Love There is No Life

Truly, women today are frightening! I've looked at several hundred women's dating profiles. Some women's arms are thicker than my leg. What man wants to marry a fat obese cow? Obesity is epidemic across America! A lot of Philippine women are looking for a husband, but they just want a one-way ticket out of poverty! There are 20 year old Filipina girls who would marry a 60 year old man in a wheelchair just to gain U.S. citizenship. That's not what I'm looking for (She must be at least 25!) I'm just being funny, of course. I am leery of the whole idea of marrying someone just so they can become an American.

I was reading about the famous preacher named Gipsy Smith (1860-1947), who was 78 years old when a 26 year old woman married him (see an actual news clipping to the right from June 30, 1938 - Click picture for a larger photo). She was a going away present for him, I'll tell you Brother! I'm envious! Gipsy died in 1947.

Also, Pastor Keith Gomez in Elgin, Illinois. A young Christian woman in her 20's married him in his 60's. Lucky dog! I am sincerely happy for them both (but envious...lol). Wow! They are both avid hunters, having gone on multiple hunting safaris to Africa. I think that is cool. Love knows no boundaries. I just don't like that Pastor Gomez has an errant view on repentance, saying that it means “turning from sinful ways” to be saved. The gift of God is without obligation, except to receive it by simple childlike faith. Many preachers have a difficult time understanding repentance, especially since God expects every believer to live a holy life in Christ Jesus. Albeit, the honest Bible student will never be led astray if they always keep in mind that eternal life is the “free gift” of God (Romans 5:15).

If a woman divorces her husband, she is CAUSING him to commit adultery when he remarries. Staying single after a divorce is Scripturally recommended, but optional (1st Corinthians 7:27). It is cruel and selfish for any hypocrite to tell a lonely divorced person that they are out of luck, as one rotten Baptist missionary told me. I have not had any dealings with him since. Proverbs 14:7, “Go from the presence of a foolish man, when thou perceivest not in him the lips of knowledge.” I have been alone for 13 long years, and thought about suicide for awhile when things were rough several years ago, but God has seen me through. Just as “David encouraged himself in the LORD his God” (1st Samuel 30:6), so have I done.

Another big issue that I see (literally) is that women simply DON'T CARE how they dress in public! I'm frustrated every time I see independent fundamental Baptist women adorned in sexy tight spandex and other inappropriate attire. Shame on them! Even unsaved Mormon women have higher standards of modesty than most Baptists. Bob Jones University permits female students to wear halter tops. THAT IS REALLY SAD!!! We are too tuned into the world today. We live in a mousetrap society today in America, where careless ungodly women can wear next to nothing, but a man has to pretend like he is castrated. And sadly, professed Christian women aren't much better! Women ought not wear pants, it is the practice of a heathen culture! Personally, I am far more attracted in my soul to a Christian woman wearing culottes! I wish I could find such a woman to marry!

Women Are Completely Bonkers Nowadays!

I am not down on women. I think the woman is the most beautiful creature God ever created. I think men these days, due to the demonic influence of Hugh Hefner (1926-2017)—who was already dead long before he died—have adopted the ungodly Playboy Philosophy, which sinfully views women as a commodity, a temporary play-toy to use for pleasure and then discarded. That is tragically the attitude and character of most American males today. Hebrews 13:4, “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” I deliberately chose not to use the word “men,” because they are not real men. Having a male reproductive gland does not define manhood! Most males are not men nowadays! A real man gets married before he enjoys the privileges of marriage! It certainly doesn't help men when women dress seductively, wearing revealing clothing, showing their sexy hips and buttocks. Such wicked women are tempting men more than they are already struggling with lust. 1st Peter 2:11, “Dearly beloved, I beseech you as strangers and pilgrims, abstain from fleshly lusts, which war against the soul.” Did you read that ladies? The Word of God calls the struggle with lust, “A WAR AGAINST THE SOUL.” ...

“The baby boomers by nature are a spoiled rotten generation!!!”
—Pastor Steven Anderson, a quote from the needful sermon, “
The Baby Boomer Generation.”

“And let me tell you something. The Summer of Love, was not the 'Summer of Love,' because love is when we love God and keep His Commandments, and 'love thy neighbour as thyself.' Love is the fulfilling of the law. Love worketh no ill to his neighbour. No, it was the summer of filth, the summer of fornication, the summer of bastard children, the summer of wickedness! That's what it ought to be called; not the summer of love. It's the summer debauchery, summer of fornication, summer of adultery, summer of drugs, summer of frying your brain, summer of LSD, summer of dope, and fools! It's nothing to be glorified—Woodstock, The Monterey Pop Festival—These aren't cool things, these are things that destroyed the morals of a generation! Nudity, sodomy, filth, fornication—these ideas need to be rejected!!!” —Pastor Steven Anderson, a quote from the needful sermon, “The Baby Boomer Generation.”

Morality is laughed at nowadays. Young people are as ungodly as ever, because their parents raised them that way, the baby-boomer generation of spoiled American brats. The world hates Americans!!! Women and men are messed up today, to be truthful. Albeit, I wanted to focus in this article on the millions of women today who have unrealistic expectations of finding a perfect husband. I have just about given up on finding a wife over the internet, because it is just a big waste of time. Women are no longer realistic. Many women don't want a divorced man, and many of those women are 40 years old! Good luck finding a virgin husband that's never been married at age 40. I don't see a bunch of widowers, do you?

A lot of women never get married because they are waiting for a man to approach them. I can tell you ladies that a lot of guys, like me, are reserved and simply keep to themselves. There is nothing wrong with a woman approaching a man. If you really like a guy, tell him. What's the worst that can happen? One of the hardest things for a man is to muster up the courage to tell a woman how he feels. Part of the problem is that men today don't know the best way to approach a woman, because of paranoia in our society today about creeps (and there are plenty of them). So the average guy, who doesn't want to come across as being a creep, may not know how to let a woman know that he likes her, for fear of her response. In other words, it is MUCH harder for a man to approach a woman, than it is for a woman to approach a man.

I read a few years ago about a dating agency in Beijing, China, that invited a couple hundred men and women who were seeking a marriage partner. Even at the event, which was solely for the purpose of meeting a person to marry, the men were talking to the men, and the women were talking to the women, not interacting with each other. Our world has drastically changed over the past century. Everywhere I go it seems like women are lost in their own little existence, oblivious to the world around them. I admit that I am no better at meeting people than the folks I just described. I am a loner by nature, private, a total homebody, and I think a decent guy. That makes it almost impossible for me to find a woman to marry. I've tried to move away from Guam twice, back to the United States, but was overwhelmed trying to do it all by myself. It's not easy starting your life all over again! So I'm stuck in limbo. Albeit, I am thankful to God and not complaining about anything. I think often of Pastor Jack Hyles' sermon, “Enjoy Your Troubles While You Can!,” and that encourages me. I am also encouraged by all the online preaching by fundamentalist Baptist preachers, which I am extremely and continually grateful for! WE ALL NEED BIBLE PREACHING! Amen!

I was thinking about a Scripture recently, that I quoted earlier, from 1st Corinthians 7:27-31, “Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife. But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you. But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none. And they that weep, as though they wept not; and they that rejoice, as though they rejoiced not; and they that buy, as though they possessed not; And they that use this world, as not abusing it: for the fashion of this world passeth away.” That is interesting. God says for married men to view things as if he weren't married. That's a lot easier for a married guy to do than a single guy, trust me! The Lord didn't forget about the single person in here. The Lord said if you want to marry, you have NOT SINNED. That is what the Holy Bible teaches!

I was compelled to write this article from all the selfish stuff I have seen while viewing women's profiles, and from my own personal experiences interacting with women in local Baptist churches, while searching for a wife. Women these days are messed up! They are filled with pride, paranoia and selfishness. I feel like the guy in Johnny Lee's country song, Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places. I believe a local New Testament church is the best place to find a husband or wife, but sadly those type of churches are going extinct. That is the whole reason I have tried to move twice, and by God's grace hope to do so down the road, Lord willing. Pastor Jack Hyles used to wisely say, “If you can't find a good church in your area, MOVE!” One day at a time.

I am just a struggling sinner, wanting to help others in the Lord anyway that I can. I just want to be a blessing as much as I can, to whomever I can, whenever I can, as often as I can, wherever I can, in any way that I can! Good luck finding a single woman who feels that way nowadays! Every child of God ought to have A SERVANT'S HEART. Every child of God ought to be PURE OF HEART! American woman today are spoiled brats, it matters not if they are Christians or unsaved! I'm talking about Bible colleges graduates! This is the consequence of generations of feminist indoctrination through the ungodly media. Where is the virtuous women whose price is far above rubies? Where is the prudent woman, which means, she thinks before she does! Where is the Proverbs 31 woman, whose husband and children call her “blessed”? We've got a society today of home-wrecking fools! Most church women are merely religious—snobby, holier than thou in their attitude, unappreciative, cold and unapproachable.

A couple years ago, I gave some Alexander Scourby audio King James Bibles to a Bob Jones University woman that I liked at a local church, but she didn't even say thank you! (She was the one who cold-heartedly told me to go away!) She will make a great old maid some day! I know some ungrateful people believe that a gift is free, and so you ought not be expected to thank them. However, that is a poor attitude. If someone gives you something and you don't thank them, you are an ingrate! If you don't thank God for your eternal life, and for pardoning all your rotten sins, you deserve to burn in Hell as an ingrate! Yet, our great God “is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil” (Luke 6:35).

This generation of ungodly spoiled brats, sluts, dykes and lesbians is going straight to Hell. And sadly, that feminist influence has crept into our churches, masculinizing our women, so that they are tough like men these days. It is sickening! I admit that I ABSOLUTELY HATE military women! I detest them! I cannot stand them! GET AWAY FROM ME!!! I detest women cops. They belong at home burping babies, baking cookies and being a good wife! I can't stand professional type women, who dress and act decisively like men. It is Biblically wrong! The perverse “UNISEX” (MP3 sermon by Dr. Jack Hyles) movement has destroyed our country. Where is the feminine, sweet, loving and submissive woman anymore? A feminist brat doesn't just all of a sudden become a loving, sweet and submissive wife after she gets married. Women are messed up, so much so that many Christian women don't even know how to be feminine anymore. And worse of all, they don't desire to be! Feminine women are literally mocked and laughed at by American religious women today. Our nation has become so evil and far away from God that people get mad when anybody calls a queer a queer! People don't want to hear the truth. In today's ungodly society, you are allowed to talk about how wonderful it is to be a sodomizing queer, but you are ganged-up on and called a hateful bigot if you say that homosexuality is a filthy sin! That is the truth by the way! Homosexuality is a filthy disgusting sin!

This untoward generation hates those who hate unrighteousness! Truth is only hate to those who hate THE TRUTH! I hate every falsehood, because I love THE TRUTH of God's inspired Word. Psalms 119:104, “Through thy precepts I get understanding: therefore I hate every false way.” Women are so screwed up today that many of them are having their eggs frozen, so they can pursue a career, and have children in their 40's. If that is you, YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE A MOTHER! A recent study in 2018 found that many woman aren't freezing their eggs to pursue a career, but simply because THEY HAVEN'T FOUND A MAN!!! Ha, am I right on target or what? If that is not bonkers, what is? Hey, I've got a question: What's the difference between a Bob Jones University nurse who is too religious to settle for a cool guy for a husband, or a nut that freezes her eggs because she is too messed up to find a husband? NOTHING! They are both going to die old maids! Call me what you want, I've got all the e-mails from guys just like me, who are bewildered at how bonkers women are today! And sadly that includes church women too! What does a poor guy have to do nowadays to get married?

You know, some people see my Bible-preaching website and get intimidated, thinking I'm THE GREAT OZ or something; but I'm just the little webservant behind the curtain, and I don't even own a dog either, like the Wizard didn't. That was Dorothy's little mutt in the 1939 film, “The Wizard Of Oz.” I have had numerous web visitors over the years write to express disagreements with me, expecting a harsh reply back from a holier-than-thou type of man, but they were pleasantly surprised when a kind and loving man replied to them with understanding. That is me folks! I'm just a normal person with lots of strong opinions. I remember one atheist man, who was skeptical of my website labors, wrote to me saying, “What if you die one day and find out that none of this is true?” I wrote back to him, “It was fun while it lasted!” He wrote back again and thanked me. He said, “You know, I was really expecting some holier than thou answer, and a harsh rebuttal. You have won my respect! Thank you.” That's what he said. You see folks, GOD IS LOVE, and the main quality of a child of God should be LOVE! Love is what compels us to love our neighbour as our self, no matter what!!!!!!!

Ye That Love the Lord, Hate Evil

I HATE UNRIGHTEOUSNESS! Psalms 97:10a, “Ye that love the LORD, hate evil: he preserveth the souls of his saints; he delivereth them out of the hand of the wicked.” Christian women ought to absolute HATE women wearing pants, but instead THEY WEAR THEM!!! Thanks a lot all you irresponsible females who make it harder for us men to live right! America's crazy laws protect evildoers. Every time I hear of horrifying crimes in the news, I have difficulty feeling any sympathy for Americans, because we have done this to ourselves! As long as we deprive impressionable children of the Holy Bible, and instead we indoctrinate them with the blatant lies and science-fiction of Evolution, all manner of crime will continue and escalate until we completely destroy ourselves. 

Christians are far too complacent in this generation. The churches don't care and have become indifferent, because everything is about prioritizing money these days! I am so sick and tired of hearing deadbeat pastors say they're trying to “build a work,” as a lame excuse to shut me up about what's wrong with the modern corrupt Bible versions. They view me as a threat, a trouble-maker who causes controversies and might cause a church split. God pity that ungodly and disgraceful type of completely overpaid pastor! Pensacola Christian College (PCC) wants to build a little religious center on Guam, but they don't care about THE TRUTH!!! Don't even get me started on today's horrible pastors! I love pastors, if they are Bible-preachers! But how can you preach the inspired Word of God if you cannot even discern which Bible God wrote, amongst hundreds of English Bible versions available today? Duh, gee, let me figure this out... Eeny, Meeny, Miny, Moe! I actually heard a local Baptist pastor on Guam say publicly from his pulpit that he wasn't surfing the internet during church, he was searching through different versions of the Bible to prepare his sermon. Goodnight in the morning! That is the poor quality of church pastors today... Eeny, Meeny, Miny, Moe! But I'm the bad guy according to their church staff, because I actually think GOD AUTHORED JUST ONE BOOK, and that we have it in the inspired King James Bible. Whose bonkers? Pastors gone wild!

I could write a volume of books on this topic. We've let the Devil take control over our lives in America. I don't care how sheltered a life you try to live, you cannot escape the insanity of this generation! The apostle Paul said because of the fierce and deadly persecution against the New Testament Church, he thought it was a good idea to avoid getting married. 1st Corinthians 7:25-26, “Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful. I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for a man so to be.” I'm starting to feel that way in our messed-up American culture today, where WOMEN HAVE GONE BONKERS, all manner of wickedness is now legal, and hatred and persecution against God-fearing, godly, Christ-honoring, Christians is quickly growing. Beam me up Scotty?

If you are a sweet, kind, sincere, pure of heart, responsible, appreciative, submissive, God-fearing, loyal woman, then I am not talking about you, so please don't be offended. And if you are fairly attractive, and single, I am looking for a wife. = -)


“The secret to Jack Hyles is his willingness to be repetitious of the obvious.” —Singer Bill Harvey

“We need to understand that Elders are to be respected by default, but when they start teaching lies and wickedness and perversion and filth, at that point they've just lost respect right there. They've lost their right to be respected!” —Pastor Steven Anderson, a quote from the needful sermon, “The Baby Boomer Generation.”

“The mark of the child of God is that he loves everybody!”
(a quote from Pastor Jack Hyles' classic MP3 sermon, “FORGIVENESS”)

“Sometimes you may leave here and say, 'I wonder what he's mad about?'
I'm not mad about anything, I just know one thing—whatever a
preacher quits preaching on, is what his church will fill up with!”

SOURCE: Pastor Phil Kidd, a quote from the needful sermon “I AM Ashamed.

“Only the Word of God can make you a man of God!”
—a quote by Pastor Ralph “Yankee” Arnold from the awesome sermon, “The Sure Word of Prophecy.”

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