When A Marriage License Becomes A Weapon
by David J. Stewart | May 2016
Matthew 19:4-6, “And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.”
It is a horrible thing when a marriage license is used instead as a weapon. I listen to lots of preaching, so I cannot remember where I've heard many great quotes. I heard a preacher say recently that husband and wives ought to “fight fair” in marriage disputes. Filing for a divorce is dirty, unbiblical and cutthroat. It is a wicked thing for any person to file for a divorce. It is wicked because it is breaking your marriage vows. No one promises to remain faithful until death, “but only if my spouse doesn't abuse me, or mess up along the way, or make me feel unloved, or commit a crime.” We are a nation of liars and quitters! You have a right to disagree, but I am set in my Biblical beliefs. No one has a right to divorce a spiritually sick spouse, anymore than you would a physically sick spouse. Our text verse doesn't offer any exclusions or disclaimers to the marriage vows. When you are married, you become ONE in God's eyes, and no man ought to ever to permit a divorce. Even if you have to live separated for the rest of your lives, you ought not be able to dissolve your marriage, ever!
Whereas God creates children in the mother's womb, man destroys that precious life by abortion. Whereas God creates male and female to marry, man marries men with men in perverse same-sex relationships. Whereas God created sex to be enjoyed within the confines of holy matrimony, man instead enjoys sex outside of a legally-binding marriage commitment. Whereas God joins a man and a woman at marriage for life, man destroys that bond and separates husband and wife. Man ruins, destroys and perverts everything that is of God and holy!!!
A marriage license is unbiblical. No one should have to obtain the government's permission to get married, nor have to pay for that license permission (license). Albeit, a legally-binding marriage is Biblical, to protect both spouses. Otherwise your spouse could walk out the door and leave at will, abandoning you without consequences. Unfortunately, marriage has become obsolete in America. The reason why is because there are no penalties for fornicating or committing adultery if you are unmarried. So young people nowadays figure, why get married? If they can have sexual relations outside of marriage, then why get married? This is a direct result of sex-education in the ungodly public school system. This is the government's educational system. The government even uses taxpayer money to provide free condoms nationwide to young people to fornicate. The government has no right nor business educating our children, and certainly not to give them condoms. It is totally unconstitutional and unethical.
There is no innocence of youth anymore. Children are becoming adults in the early teens, even becoming parents, missing out on the once fun years of being a teenager. There was a time (1966) when the Beach Boys' song, “Wouldn't It Be Nice,” actually meant something special; whereas, nowadays teens have already “been there and done that” by age 15. It is a horrible thing! Instead of our American culture holding the honor and virtue of proper courtship before marriage, Walt Disney and Hollywood are teaching youth to have premarital sex, and for boys to “score” with the girls (as Walt Disney's “The Suite Life Of Zach And Cody” teaches). Did you know that the former CEO of Walt Disney estimated that at least 40% of Disney's 63,000 employees are homosexuals?
And Disney's present CEO is a man married to another man. Yet, I know of Independent Baptist Churches who use Disney's theme songs to teach music to their youth. My God! My God! What is happening to our churches??? I'll tell you what . . . If you don't fight and stand, you'll backslide and die! Bob Jones College is dying! Many Baptist churches are dying! The Presbyterian denomination is dead, 20,562 ministers having accepted same-sex marriage in 10,083 churches in March of 2015. STAND FOR GOD!!! EXPOSE WALT DISNEY! EXPOSE SATAN'S BIBLE REVISIONS! PREACH AGAINST THE SIN OF DIVORCE! EXPOSE BAD JUDGES WHO DISREGARD THE BILL OF RIGHTS AND THE U.S. CONSTITUTION! PREACH AGAINST EVIL GREEDY LAWYERS WHO PREY UPON WEAK MARRIAGES.
I was digging through my old book collection today and found the book by Dr. Bob Jones Sr. titled, “Things I Have Learned.” These were chapel talks by Dr. Bob at Bob Jones University, back when they still had a zeal for standing for God. Today, they are eerily silent about the modern counterfeit Bible revisions which are destroying our churches. Judgment Day is coming (2nd Corinthians 5:9-11). Anyway, in Dr. Bob Jones' excellent 224-page book I read the following great quote:
“You cannot do wrong and get away with it. The game of sin is an unbeatable game! I have learned that the wisest man who ever lived on earth, the greatest genius who ever breathed, was not mighty enough to do wrong and get away with it. No student in Bob Jones College ever did wrong and got away with it. Oh, it may be that a student didn't get caught in just the thing he did; but he got caught in his character. The worst thing that can happen to a student is to break a rule and not get caught. It will mar him and hurt him in coming years a thousand times worse than it would hurt him to get caught now.”
SOURCE: Dr. Bob Jones Sr., “Things I have Learned”; pp. 45.
Yes, Amen, that is 100% true! Sin always undermines a nation's character. Sin always undermines a church's character. Sin always undermines a judge's character. Sin always undermines an individual's character. America's legal system is an undermined corrupt system of hypocrisy, bad character, thuggery, intimidation, dishonesty, greed and wickedness!!! Why in the world would you want to feed your marriage to such ravenous wolves? Certainly there are some honest and fair judges, and I thank God for both of them. One of them is the honorable Judge Roy Moore, who is again being persecuted and suspended from the bench, this time for refusing to give marriage licenses to homosexuals. Years ago Judge Moore was wrongfully removed from the bench in 2003 for refusing to remove God's Ten Commandments from outside his courtroom. Thank God for Judge Roy Moore. God deliver is from lesbian judges, pedophile prosecutors, and thug gangster lawyers!!! Isaiah 13:11, “And I will punish the world for their evil, and the wicked for their iniquity; and I will cause the arrogancy of the proud to cease, and will lay low the haughtiness of the terrible.”
Dr. Bob Jones Sr. continues:
“Every great criminal in this world was a little criminal one time. He began with a little breach of law, a trampling underfoot of rules. That is the way he started, then there came a time of calamity and sorrow. You can't do wrong and get away with it.”
SOURCE: Dr. Bob Jones Sr., “Things I have Learned”; pp. 46.
I have more respect for a druggy pimp on the street than I do for most judges, prosecutors and lawyers (because of the evil things that they do to so many people). This is why judges don't walk amongst the people, because they'd be assassinated by the public! The man who prosecuted Pastor Kent Hovind in Florida (locking him away for 9 years) was busted by police at a Michigan airport in 2007 with a jar of Petroleum Jelly and gifts (a doll and necklace) for a 5-year-old girl who he thought he would be having sex with. You can read about the horrible case on Wikipedia. The prosecutor commit suicide in prison while awaiting trial. I'm not condemning the man, but this is the type of people who prosecute Americans and lock them away for profit. What do you expect from an amoral court system that honors lesbian judges? It is only by God's sovereign power that kings reign, princes rule, judges judge, prosecutors prosecute and any person has power over another person. Therefore, they are all 100% accountable to God for every decision they make. Proverbs 8:16, “By me princes rule, and nobles, even all the judges of the earth.” Isaiah 40:23, “That bringeth the princes to nothing; he maketh the judges of the earth as vanity.” Matthew 12:36 teaches that everyone will have to give account to God, even for their idle words spoken (i.e., small talk).
Sad to say, many lawyers and judges are predators, who hide behind “the system” as an excuse to bilk people financially and destroy their lives. America locks away more people than any nation on earth. The system is not fair, crooked, and often forces innocent people to plead guilty to avoid the alternative of being found guilty and sentenced to decades or life in prison. Many judges and lawyers themselves don't grasp the terrifying fear a person feels when arrested, locked in a cage, indicted, and put into “the system.” Many people prefer suicide to being at the cruel mercy of man. Proverbs 12:10b, “the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel.”
There have been numerous Hollywood films produced which expose the unfairness, crookedness, and ease in which innocent people are falsely prosecuted; such as the film, “An Innocent Man” (1989) by Tom Selleck. U.S. judges, prosecutors and lawyers are some of the wickedest people on the planet. Their common excuse is that it's just “the system,” and they're just doing their job. Yeah, that's what Herod's henchmen said too, as they murdered thousands of little Jewish babies. That's what abortion workers say, as they murder little babies. That's what Hitler's murderous men said, as they murdered millions of innocent families. If your job requires you to do evil, you are also GUILTY!!! You are an accomplice to crime in God's eyes. No one can excuse them self by saying “I'm just doing my job” or “It's just the system.”
The ungodly world doesn't care what God thinks. Our rotten U.S. legal system is of the Devil. When the system sentences a married person to spend years in prison, they've separated a husband and wife. It is wicked. God's plan is always to either be publicly beaten, pay a fine, or the death penalty. In such a way, husbands and wives are not separated. And if there is a death penalty, the remaining spouse is free to remarry. Prisons are of the Devil, not God. In our twisted U.S. culture, the death penalty is said to be inhumane and cruel; but locking a person in a 6' x 8' cage for decades to life is considered appropriate, humane and just. IT IS CRUEL WICKEDNESS!!!
America's law enforcement system has become over-reactive due to the feminist agenda. The police are over-reactive. The courts are over-reactive. Judges are often harsh, cruel and unjust. People often defecate on themselves in the courtroom, because of cruel judges who have no respect for others. Prison sentences are extremely long and unfair. Numerous private prison owners have lobbied lawmakers to greatly lengthen prison sentences, which means much more money for “the system.”
When people no longer care about the Holy Bible, all sense of fairness and doing the right thing are gone! Judges don't fear God, they fear the federal government. Lawyers fear the judges. The entire legal system operates on fear of the government, not fear of God. This is why murderous abortion is legal. This is why wickedly banning the Holy Bible from America's classrooms is legal. This is why same-sex perversion is legal. This is why wickedly quitting one's marriage is legal.
Many men are rethinking marriage these days, deciding that it is not worth the benefit-to-risk ratio. They see their fathers, older brothers, and friends suffering unjustly at the hands of a corrupt court system that caters to feminists. The court system goes after men! Perhaps you say, “Good, men ought to support their children and wife.” Ok, but now what about a man's right to expect his wife to cook, clean and care for the children? What about a man's right to sex on demand? The courts don't enforce a man's right to have a responsible, submissive and obedient wife. If a man works and the wife is at home with the children, she ought to cook for her husband. He has a right to expect a homecooked meal and a clean house. But that's not how the courts see it. The courts view what I just said as a form of domestic abuse!
And by the way, for you feminist women who think I'm a chauvinist pig, please listen to the following excellent sermon by Pastor Jack Hyles. Brother Hyles rips and blisters husbands in this sermon. You ladies will love it! I am against all forms of abuse! I truly am! But it is sinful for a wife to buck against her husband's authority, and use her marriage license as a weapon to get even with him and fight back. A husband and wife ought to be friends, lovers and pals (you have to have all three). A godly husband will yield to his wife and not lord over her as a tyrant. I'm totally against the idea of a wife being a slave. A husband should suffer with his wife when she hurts, and love her, and provide for her, and make a life for her, and be of one mind together. Feminists look at abuse in marriages and base all their beliefs on just that. They are half-cocked whackos! A godly husband is a courteous husband.
One Of The Main Reasons Why You Don't Get Your Prayers Answered (Dr. Hyles)
A man has veto power to decide who his wife doesn't have as friends, but the courts view that as abuse. Biblically, a man is to rule over his wife with Christ's love, but he is still her boss when he doesn't love her as he ought. If we only obeyed the government when our leaders are perfect, we'd have total anarchy. If a wife doesn't clean the house, her husband is the only one who can rebuke her. Who else is going to do it? The court's consider that as “domestic abuse.” A feminist psychologist would diagnose such a lazy wife with “posttraumatic stress,” blaming the husband for picking on his wife. No psychologist will diagnosis a woman with lack character; but rather, send her to a psychiatrist for a drug prescription. This is how “the system” works. Literally, a wife can slack off and shirk her wifely duties and a husband has no recourse of action.
Is it any wonder why men don't want to get married these days? Think about it! A man's wife can deny him sex, refuse to cook him a meal, refuse to get him a drink, refuse to clean the house, refuse to do anything, and there's absolutely NOTHING he can do about it. Yet, she can easily obtain a free (government pro-bono paid) lawyer simply be alleging “abuse,” drag him into court, and the judge will crucify him. This is not justice! Destroying marriages is not helping society. Courts never require a couple to undergo a mandatory year of counseling before considering a divorce. The reason why is because the banksters can't steal your home if you call off the divorce. The reason why is because the New World Order can't succeed if your marriage is restored. CPS can't steal your children if mom and dad have a happy marriage. And the truth is, the heathen world can offer no real help for your struggling marriage, because they reject the holy God of the holy Bible. Psalms 1:1-2, “Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.” The Bible has all the answers!
Please listen to the sermon by Dr. Hyles that I shared with you earlier. Here it is again. This is tough preaching for married men to hear, but this will do more to save your marriage than anything the world has to offer. ...
One Of The Main Reasons Why You Don't Get Your Prayers Answered (Dr. Jack Hyles)
I could go on for hours about our nation's corrupt legal system. The news is packed full of crimes committed by judges and lawyers. To be a part of America's legal system is nothing to be proud about. U.S. President Abraham Lincoln was correct when he said, “Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power.”